Have you ever tracked down any of your old high school friends and fellow students?
Submitted by campsite2007.
Yes, I tracked down many people from high school, but not necessary to reconnect. I joined Classmates.com at one point to see who else from the Class of 1988 was looking around. With yearbooks in hand, I remembered faces and names, and I wanted to see what paths they had taken after high school. Some were surprising, others disappointing. Still others vanished altogether without any Internet presence, or their names were just so common that I couldn't narrow down the hits and find them. I rarely sent emails to the people I found, unless I felt some urgent need to say "Hi," and they said "Hi" back and that was that. The rest I found, I left alone... I wasn't close to any of them. Not a cheerleader, not an athlete, not memorable in any way. They were, clearly, or I'd have never looked them up in the first place.
I also managed to locate my three closest friends from sophomore year. Two worked within an hour's drive, but I only managed to meet one, the woman who was my best friend in high school, after my son was born. It was a bit disappointing to see her after so many years... we weren't as close and we didn't have much in common. I was married with a baby, she worked as an attorney and clearly preferred the single, city life. This friend later moved to New York and I lost touch. The other worked for a senator, also preferred a single, city life, but when her employer lost a re-election bid, my friend disappeared. The third lives in Texas with her husband and family, not too far from her sister, who was also a friend during art class that same year. I recall finding another friend from art class and exchanging emails for a while. She asked me if I was going to the 2003 high school reunion in Vegas, and I wasn't... I suppose it would be amusing to see these people again, but I was never a social butterfly and most people wouldn't recall me.
As sixteen year olds, I remember promising to meet my friends at the base of the
Washington Momument in the year 2000, but that never happened. Part of me was sad, and the other part was relieved to avoid further disappointment. Sometimes high school memories are best left as such.
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